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Dressing Your Baby Bump for Work – Without Breaking the Bank

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Dressing baby bumps for work can be daunting, and I couldn’t wait!

I pictured myself pregnant for almost two years. I would visualize my belly with a baby bump, and imagine dressing it.

When I wore an outfit that had room in the mid-section I would push my tummy out to see how the clothes would fit with a baby bump.

I simulated a baby bump by putting a cushion under my clothes. I couldn’t wait to have a bump to dress.

I waited for almost two years to become pregnant and was ready to dress my baby bump.

Finally, Have a Baby Bump – Suprised at the Cost to Dress It!

When I finally got pregnant and went shopping for maternity clothes, I was blown away by the prices. I couldn’t justify spending so much on clothing that I would only use for a few months.

I have always enjoyed dressing up. It’s a family thing. Whether I am running errands or going to work. I wanted to maintain my style with my maternity attire, especially dressing for work.

My job entails coaching others on presenting themselves in a professional manner. Hence, I must walk-the-walk, and practice what I preach.

My mother took me shopping for professional work attire before I started my first job after completing my undergrad degree. She gave me some valuable advice about purchasing a wardrobe for work without breaking the bank.

I used those same core principles she taught me as a guide – to
Dress my Baby Bump for Work – Without Breaking the Bank.

You can dress professionally while pregnant without spending a lot buying an entirely new maternity wardrobe.
                   

  • First, Shop in Your Closet.
    Go through your clothes and see what you have that can be worn with a baby bump/as maternity clothing. Keep in mind that your body will be growing and changing over the next few months.
  • Turn Your hands and Make Fashion.
    In Jamaica, we say “Tun Yuh Han Mek Fashion”. Be creative with the resources (clothes and accessories) you already have. Try on your outfits and simulate a baby bump to help you see what clothes may work with your bump.

Example: I turned long skirts into dresses and dresses into skirts.
I pulled the long skirts up above my breast like a sleeveless dress and paired it with a jacket or cardigan.

Depending on the fit, I may also use a belt to hold the waist in.
I could wear a lot of my same clothes by adjusting how I wore them.
I used belts and scarfs to hold and adjust them as needed.
Have fun, and Tun Yuh Han and Mek Fashion!

  • The Maternity Belly Band was one of the Best Investments I made.
    I could wear most of my work pants, skirts and jeans for most of my pregnancy. I was mostly belly!
    I left the top button open and use the Belly Band to cover it up.Belly Bands also helped make my belly feel secure when it felt like my belly bottom was stretching out as the baby grew.
    You can find Belly Bands in the maternity sections of most retailers ranging from around $10 to $50.

 

  • Tank Tops and Cami’s were another favorite and staple in my maternity wardrobe.
    I purchased several colors, styles, and sizes. These helped to hold my growing belly; cover my growing breasts and hide and hold my open pants and skirts. You can layer several tank tops as well.Tuck one into your pants or skirt to hold your growing bump and use the other to cover up your open button.
    Choose materials that are comfortable and can stretch.
    You can find decent and inexpensive tank tops/cami at stores such as Forever 21, Charlotte Russe and Old Navy.They typically have multiple colors and sizes. I bought several whites, black and greys in different sizes to accommodate my growing baby bump.
  • Buy Maternity Clothes Smart. My mom advised me to buy solid and neutral colors that can mix and match when she took me shopping after graduating college. I used the same principle to shop for my growing bump. Hence, why I bought multiple black, white and grey tank tops.

Specialized Maternity Store
The first store I visited to buy maternity clothes was, of course, a maternity specialized store in the mall. I was sticker price shocked when I saw the price of their clothes, and the majority did not look like my style either. I think I bought a maternity nursing bra and belly band and left.

Department Store
I then visited one of the big department stores maternity section. I had a store card and thought at least I could get a discount if I used my store credit card. The price of their maternity clothes shocked me as well.

I was somewhat comforted that I would get a discount and started to pick out a few pieces to try-on. I received another shocker – the maternity department was separate from the store and did not accept my card, hence, no discount!

It was not a very productive shopping trip.

  • Stores that I found great maternity clothes for reasonable prices.
    Target, Ross, Burlington, Old Navy, and Walmart.
    I found my favorite pieces at Target.
  • Accessorize your bump with Belts, Scarfs, Broaches, Necklaces, Purses, and Shoes.
    You can use belts and scarfs to help shape your dresses and tops. I did not want to feel any bigger than I was. Some maternity clothes are not flattering at all. When you Know You Look Good, You Will Feel Good. I talk about dressing for success in my post about working while pregnant.
  • Rent or Borrow Maternity Clothes.
    One of my dear friends had two babies a year apart and had saved all her maternity clothes. Fortunate for me she is wonderful, kind and similar in size to me. When she found out I was pregnant she offered me all her maternity clothes. I would borrow or keep them, depending on if she had another baby. I did not think or even know there were other options of acquiring a maternity wardrobe, other than using the clothes I had or buying.

Gifted Maternity Clothes
Getting my friends maternity clothes from her two pregnancies save me a lot of money. She had multiple pieces that she never wore or wore once. She advised me to not buy a lot as she did.

You may not like how some of the maternity clothes fit, feel or look.
They are several options available today to rent and buy affordable maternity clothes that will not break your bank. Check out this article on the best places to buy affordable maternity clothes online.

  • Shoes – Go for Comfort and Professional – check with the doctor on stilettoes/pumps.

I have been wearing high heel shoes since I was a young girl. I remember trying on my mom’s shoes and practicing walking in them as a child.

I am barely five feet and three inches. I love the height I gain from wearing high heel shoes and how they make my outfit look. I enjoy wearing heels to work, however, I always have some form of flat shoe handy.

I made sure to ask my doctor’s advice about wearing heels when I became pregnant. She advised me that it was like exercising during pregnancy. If you and your body are accustomed to exercise then continue. Of course, always exercise caution and listen to your body.

I gave up my high heels and chose heels that I felt supported me and my growing baby bump.

  • Always Consult your Organizations “Professional Attire” Guidelines.

Try as best as you can to keep and follow the professional attire etiquette of your company, while maintaining your personal style. There are many “rules” for professional work attire. Some are subjective to industries and organizations.

Dressing your baby bump professionally can be overwhelming and pricey. I hope these tips will help you Dress for Success, and Save You Money.

Remember to:

  • Start by shopping in your Closet First.
  • Have fun “Tunning Yuh Han Mek Fashion”.
  • Invest in Belly Bands, Tank Tops, and Cami. These will help you stretch your regular work wardrobe.
  • Buy Maternity Clothes smart. Buy neutral colors and different sizes.
  • Consider alternative methods of acquiring your Maternity Wardrobe.
    Rent and/or borrow.
  • Professionally attired shoes are closed-toed. Choose shoes that support you and your growing belly.
  • Always reference your company’s dress code guidelines to help you dress your bump in a professional manner.
  • Shop around for the best deals in your area for maternity clothes. Compare the maternity stores, large department stores, and retail stores.

There are more options today for maternity clothing with the increase in online shopping. Most companies will allow you to return items for free and some clothing rental services will let you choose what you want and return the rest.

Reach out to your friends and family members that have been pregnant and check if they will share their maternity clothes with you.

You can dress professionally while pregnant without spending a lot buying an entirely new maternity wardrobe. You will only need maternity clothes for a short time – anyway!

Please share how you have dressed your baby bump without breaking your bank.

Enjoy your baby bump!

Yamiek, aka, Tallawah Human


 

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What’s your favorite season?⁣ ⁣ The mornings What’s your favorite season?⁣
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The mornings are getting darker and the days shorter here in Chicagoland. ⁣
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We can feel and see  the shift in the weather too. Although summer is acting out and showing off these last few days. 🔥☀️🕶️⁣
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There’s a shift of season in our household too as our kids get ready to go back to school. ⁣
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We have seasons too as working mothers. Some we can see and feel at home, at work, with our kids and within ourselves. ⁣
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The shifts within yourself as a working mother aren’t always easy to see or feel though. ⁣
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It’s important to reflect and check in with yourself often or you’ll miss these shifts within yourself… ⁣
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Especially as a busy high achieving rockstar working mom juggling multiple hats and roles. ⁣
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Comment below or send me a DM if you’d like a tool to help you discover the working mom season or phase you’re in. ⁣
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You got this mama!⁣
𝘌𝘯𝘫𝘰𝘺 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘰𝘯𝘴. 𝘐 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘣𝘦 𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨. 𝘏𝘢𝘯𝘨 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦. 𝘐𝘵 𝘨𝘰𝘦𝘴 𝘧𝘢𝘴𝘵! ⁣
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Much Love,⁣
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#workingmom⁣ #careermom⁣ #bossmom ⁣ ⁣ Let #workingmom⁣
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Let It Go!⁣
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Let Your Weight Go! ⁣
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No matter the weight of the load you’re carrying over time it becomes increasingly difficult to hold.⁣
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I was reminded again how seemingly “light weights” will undoubtedly become heavier the longer you hold them during weight training last week.⁣
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The weight you hold on to whether tangible or intangible, figurative or actual weight…will become heavier and affect you in some way. ⁣
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Ask for help.⁣
Get help.⁣
Hire help.⁣
Outsource.⁣
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Sometimes you just need to cry it out. ⁣
Journal.⁣
Talk with somebody.⁣
Go for a run or just move your body. ⁣
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Life is a challenge. Add being a working mother wearing multiple hats trying to rock life at home and at work…⁣
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The weight of your entire load can become so heavy without you recognizing how it’s affecting you. ⁣
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I highly encourage you to 𝘵𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘢 𝘮𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘢𝘴𝘴𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘦𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘰𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘭𝘰𝘢𝘥 as you begin your week. Especially if you’re feeling frustrated, overwhelmed and a bag of unknown emotions and feelings….⁣
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Have a wonderful week.⁣
You’re doing amazing, Mama! ⁣
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𝘓𝘦𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘪𝘴𝘩 𝘎𝘖 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵’𝘴 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘴𝘦𝘳𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘺𝘰𝘶! 💕⁣
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Much Love,⁣
Yamiek⁣
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We must generate the mood we want AND need especia We must generate the mood we want AND need especially when life and our world seems bleak. ⁣
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We cannot leave ourselves vulnerable to whatever life throws our way. ⁣
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Every day that we open our eyes We GET TO decide on the mood we want to have.⁣
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Some of us have to fight harder to overcome internal and external stuff…𝘒𝘦𝘦𝘱 𝘧𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘰 𝘨𝘦𝘯𝘦𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘮𝘰𝘰𝘥, 𝘦𝘯𝘦𝘳𝘨𝘺 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘷𝘪𝘣𝘦𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘯𝘦𝘦𝘥, 𝘸𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦!⁣
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Happy happy Friday! 🥳🥳🥳🥳⁣
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I just love Fridays! Whether I’m working for a company or for my business or the kids are in school or on holidays.  Fridays brings another level of joy. I feeling good I feeling good….🎶🎼🎶 𝘨𝘦𝘯𝘦𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘷𝘪𝘣𝘦𝘴 𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴…⁣
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Bring on the weekend! 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽⁣
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Big up to all the women and working moms who are u Big up to all the women and working moms who are unapologetically embracing who they are and going after the lives they feel called to.⁣
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Despite the internal and external struggles, doubts and challenges. ⁣
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Thank You for showing other women and working moms that they CAN too. ⁣
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Thank you for showing me that I don’t have to settle. ⁣
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Thank you for showing me that I’m not alone and that there is INDEED another way! ⁣
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THANK YOU!⁣
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Being a working mother shouldn’t be this difficult. Especially during this time! ⁣
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NO! IT SHOULD NOT! ⁣
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Thank you for encouraging me to dream beyond my wildest dreams. ⁣
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I know it’s not easy. ⁣
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Keep showing up for yourself. It gives others permission to do the same. ⁣
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I’m extraordinarily grateful for the women and working mothers that are stepping into who they are and creating the lives they want, need and love, despite the challenges.⁣
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You give me and other women and working moms hope and belief which allows us to give ourselves permission to go after the working mom lives we want too.⁣
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I SEE YOU!⁣
THANK YOU!⁣
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So much love and respect,⁣
Yamiek⁣
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It’s mid week, mid month and just over four mont It’s mid week, mid month and just over four months before 2024.⁣
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Let’s do a quick self check. ⁣
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Are you truly ALL in? ⁣
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Are you unconsciously giving yourself a way out ? Or self sabotaging? 😬⁣
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Our doubts, fears and lack of belief can unknowingly affect how we approach and go after our goals. ⁣
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Especially those new BIG and scary goals…⁣
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And even those goals you’ve been working towards for years. ⁣
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Check in with yourself, mama!⁣
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𝘞𝘦 𝘵𝘳𝘶𝘭𝘺 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘳𝘪𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘴 𝘰𝘧 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘴𝘵𝘰𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘴! ⁣
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Create. Maintain. And LIVE The Working Mom Life YOU Want. Need. And LOVE! ⁣
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Much Love,⁣
Yamiek⁣
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P.S. Re the video…⁣
I was trying to capture the breathtaking view getting off the highway as we got to Ocho Rios 🇯🇲. The camera don’t do it justice.
I promised to share pictures giving a better view I promised to share pictures giving a better view of the process of making our garden. Ahem, farm! 😜😂⁣
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I’m only the helper. This is one of my husbands projects. ⁣
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We’ve been gardening before we had kids, and it’s evolved over the years. ⁣
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The pictures begin showing some of the food we’ve made from our harvest so far…⁣
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Then gives you a chronicle of the process. ⁣
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The first video is from the morning after we got back from vacation. ⁣
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The next shows the day we planted. Guys, it’s only 16 days between! ⁣
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I’m still blown away how fast everything grew AND produced veggies! ⁣
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A few factors that made a difference: ⁣
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1. The soil was well fertilized. My husband had a compost going since last year and we bought “good” soil this year. ⁣
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2. The raised bed gardens and bird netting provided protection. ⁣
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3. Hubby installed a timed water system since we were going to be away for a while. ⁣
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3. We were fortunate that it rained a lot while we were away on vacation. ⁣
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4. The experience, research, planning and strategic execution done by my husband. ⁣
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They’re so many lessons in gardening we can use in various areas of our lives as we work towards our goals. ⁣
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Put in the work, know they’re unknowns that will occur and adjust accordingly. ⁣
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Much Love,⁣
Yamiek ⁣
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